In this column, Stefanie Stahl and Lukas Klaschinski discuss salary gaps in the partnership, jealousy and finding a relationship again after having children. star users ask, the star psychologists answer. Stefanie Stahl and Lukas Klaschinski

Stefanie Stahl: First I would try to understand where his concerns come from. Because if his doubts are rooted in himself, which is not unlikely, then you cannot take them away from him. Then the best you can do is support him in resolving these doubts.